I can’t cope with people telling me what to do for my wedding

Does this sound familiar?

If you are a bride I’m afraid you are not alone.

I can't cope with people telling me what to do for my wedding

The 6 top fears and concerns I hear from brides embarking on their wedding planning are:

  • I can’t cope with people telling me what to do for my wedding
  • I feel like we’re doing things for other people, not ourselves
  • I don’t know where to start
  • I don’t know how to budget
  • Which order should we do things in?
  • Everything seems so expensive

After 16 years of planning my lovely clients’ weddings, and 12 training and coaching wedding planners and other wedding suppliers in my role at the UK Alliance of Wedding Planners, I think I have probably heard it all.

In that time I have spoken to many brides who simply cannot afford to hire a professional wedding planner and many who are keen to plan their own wedding, but want a bit of guidance.

Planning a wedding can be really daunting and, albeit you’re probably finding every second family member and friend has their ideas of what you ‘should’ do, sometimes it’s hard to know who to listen to.

For this reason, and in order to help far more brides than I am able to one to one, I developed ‘The Emboldened Bride’ online coaching and training programme and am getting wonderful feedback from those who’ve enrolled and begun it.

The programme helps you solve your fears and dilemmas and provides you not only with my planning experience and expertise, but also with free bonus sessions with some of my industry expert colleagues sharing their wisdom and answering your questions. It’s like having your own wedding planner and a team of experts helping you for less than the price of 2 posh coffees a week, for 6 months. Why not give yourself the chance to feel as carefree as these two did on their wedding day?

  • Learn coping mechanisms to help you handle objections and manage expectations: strategies you can apply to many parts of life as well as your wedding planning
  • Learn and apply simple strategies to ensure you have the wedding you two want, not the one others think is right for you
  • Enjoy finding out where to start and all you need to do, rather than worrying about it
  • Work with an expert to put together your budget and allocate amounts to each element: discover it can actually be fun!
  • Fill in your attractive Workbook for each Module, along with your budget, timeline and many other templates and discover you’re resolving issues and making progress without stress and without realising it
  • Find simple ways to save money and work out what’s really important to you and what, quite frankly, isn’t
  • Join likeminded brides in weekly online live training and coaching and a dedicated programme Facebook Group

There are lots of great apps, lists and articles available to brides of course, which is fantastic, but having a wedding planner, other experts and a group of brides going through the same issues together is quite different.

If you’d like to join other brides on the Programme I am taking registrations, but only until midnight on 15th March. Please don’t miss out. I would love to have you on board and help you plan and design your perfect day stress free!

Image credits: Dasa Wharton